Indecisive

Dear Nerdie, There's a person that I'm interested in. I think there's a great chance that he might be the one, but he's already in a relationship. I think he was interested in me because he asked me out prior to getting involved with someone else, but at that time I wasn't ready for anything more than friendship. Now, I'm wondering if I should make a move, or let his current relationship run its course. Is it worth breaking up a relationship for the possibility of my own true love?

Dear Indecisive, This is a hard one. On one hand, if you truly love this person you will want them to be happy. But what if you are what makes them happy? I would tell him how you feel. I would give him the option to see what could be with this other person but let him know that you are there. That you love him and that you know it isn't fair to him at this point to ask him to give up the current relationship because you turned him down before. If he is really your true love, are you willing to wait it out? If it's meant to be it will be, have a little faith.